Recommended Books


The Great Sex Secret, by Kim Marshall.

Mutual satisfaction during lovemaking - true fulfillment for both partners - really matters, especially in long-term love relationships. But because of the way our bodies "interface" during straightforward intercourse, women are often left unsatisfied. Throughout history, one-sided sex has been the norm - male contentment and female frustration. Even today, with our improved understanding of sexual anatomy, many couples are still in the same fix. Marshall's carefully researched and superbly written book tells what a few fortunate lovers have discovered - and almost never talk about. The Great Sex Secret gives a detailed, straightforward description of three approaches that reliably deliver mutual satisfaction. This book is a perfect conversation-starter for couples who want to find their way to sexual happiness - but are having difficulty talking about the details.

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Put Passion First, by Carol Cassell.

Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? The Internet dating sites that put a premium on compatibility and shared interests could be keeping you from focusing on what's really important: a passionate love that rocks your world like nothing else. In Put Passion First, you'll learn how to open the floodgates of passionate love in your life, whether you're looking for that special someone or you want to ramp up the sexual chemistry in your current relationship.

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The Sex-Starved Marriage, by Michele Weiner Davis.

In contrast to its tabloid title, The Sex-Starved Marriage offers candid and sensible counsel for couples with mismatched libidos. Seasoned sex therapist Michele Weiner-Davis skewers two stereotypes about sex in marriage. First, she jettisons the idea that husbands are hot and wives are not, giving examples of "low-desire" men in her practice. Next, she upends the longstanding model of sexual response and advises readers: "Just do it. Desire is a decision. Once the low-interest partner allows him/herself to be touched and aroused, this will trigger a strong desire to continue being sexual." The strength of her approach to the causes of sexual stalemate lies in her insights about the struggles of both partners. Her suggestions (how to break the ice, how to court your partner, nag busting, and the Hallmark solution) are not gimmicky and are presented as techniques for couples, not individuals. Weakened only by a final chapter -one that discloses too many details about the author's marriage -this perceptive book will inspire couples to add heat and light to their marriage.

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He's Just Not Up for It Anymore, by Bob Berkowitz and Susan Yaeger-Berkowitz.

Men not interested in sex? Can this really be true? It is for the estimated 20 million American men and women who are in relationships in which the man has stopped being sexually intimate. This breakthrough book reveals the counterintuitive truth: Many men are just not up for it anymore. To find out why, bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Bob Berkowitz and his wife, Susan Yager-Berkowitz, began an unprecedented survey of more than 4,000 men and women in this situation, gathering data and following up with hundreds of interviews with selected respondents.

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Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible, by Dr. Trina E. Read.

You're too busy, you're too tired, you're too stressed, you're too all of the above. Huh? Why did that happen? Sex educator Dr. Trina E. Read shows you why in Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible. It all comes down to the difference between single-woman sex and married-woman sex. Written in a fun, laugh-out-loud style, Till Sex Do Us Part is like a great chat over a bottle of wine with your best girlfriend who's been there.

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